Coming to the conclusion that you are gay takes self-exploration and confidence. Coming out is even harder. If you are young, live in a small town, or lack friends of a similar sexual orientation, it can be hard to find resources to assist you in learning about your sexuality. Thankfully, there are books, internet resources and sex toys that can help you learn more about your sexual orientation and what kind of sexual activities you might like to explore.
|I've Just Discovered I'm Gay. Now What?|
The best thing to remind yourself of in difficult times is that there is no one version of being gay. Sexuality comes in a million different shades. Just as one heterosexual might be into exhibitionism or S&M, another heterosexual may like sex with the lights off and under the covers. Homosexuality comes in the same variations. One lesbian may be femme, another butch. One gay man may be flamboyant, one might like muscle culture. There is no one version of being gay, and that's absolutely normal.
If you're just starting out in your first gay relationship, and you're wondering what options you have for exploring one another's bodies, you can try all kinds of things. There are traditional sex toys you might enjoy, and others made especially for lesbians and gays. Men might enjoy anal toys. Women might like strap-ons or dildos. Enhancement creams and lubricants make sex better for anyone.